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Yadda Ake Shagwaɓa a Soyayya Domin Yan'mata: Soyayya itace masu iya magana suke cewa ruwan zuma. Wato tafi daɗi idan kasha sannan kaba masoyi. Shagwaba a soyayya wani bigire ce da ke kawo nishadi da jindadi a zuciyar masoya, musamman idan kin iya gudanar da ita cikin salo na kulawa da fahimtar sahibinki. Yawanci gaskiya mata aka fi sani da shagwaba a soyayya domin dama ko ban faɗa ba, tofa shagwaba a soyayya tafi dacewa daku mata. Wasu lokutan maza suna yin shagwaba a soyayya kuma shagwaban maza sai ta baki dariya domin wasu kwata-kwata basu iya ba, amma wasu mazan suna iya shagwaba a soyayya yadda ya kamata. To dama dai ance kowa da kiwon daya karbe shi. Ɗaya daga cikin hanyoyin da ake kara danƙon ƙauna tsakanin masoya shine shagwaɓa a soyayya. Ita kuwa Shagwaɓa a soyayya ba wani abu bace illa wata dabara da ake yi ta salon magana ko motsin jiki domin neman kulawa ta gaggawa daga masoyiya, wato malam shagwaba a soyayya yan'mata suna yinta ne domin ka kula dasu cikin gaggawa wa...

Sunayen Maza Da Ma’anarsu a Musulunci: A al’adar Musulunci, Laƙabin suna yana da matuƙar muhimmanci ga kowane musulmi, domin yana nuna asalinsa, addininsa, da kuma kyawawan halaye da ake fata ya samu a rayuwarsa ko ya rayu da su. Wannan dalili ne yasa hausawa suke maida hankali sosai lokacin zaben sunayen da zasu sakawa yayansu, domin sunayen su kasance masu ma'ana. A yau idan Allah ya nufa wannan shafi zai maida hankalinsa akan sunayen maza da ma'anarsu a musulunci. A cikin wannan rubutun nayi iya bakin ƙoƙarina domin tabbatar da samar da abinda ake bukata. Sannan kuma ayi sani cewa ba zamu iya samar da gaba ɗaya sunaye da ma'anarsu ba, wato zamu tattauna wasu ne daga cikin sunayen maza da ma’anarsu a Musulunci. Burinmu shine mu taimakawa iyaye wajen zaben sunayen da suka fi dacewa da jariransu. Menene muhimmancin suna a addinin Musulunci: A Musulunci, zabar laƙabin suna mai kyau yana da muhimmanci kamar yadda Hadisin Manzon Allah (SAW) yake cewa: “Hakkin da mahaifi yake d...

Hirar Soyayya Masu Dadi: Domin samun sirrukan ƙauna: Soyayya ruwan zuma, idan kasha ka ba masoyi. Ruwan soyayya idan an sha shi yana kawo jin nishadi da kuma annashuwa ga zuciya masoyi. Daga cikin abubuwan da ke sa soyayya ta zama mai armashi da son kasancewa da juna akwai hirar soyayya masu dadi . Hirar soyayya masu dadi tana ƙara kusanci tsakanin masoya, sannan tana gina fahimta, da kuma kara danƙon soyayya a cikin zuciyar masoya. A yau wannan rubutu nawa ni sarkin soyayya na shafin Aminiya zai baku labarin masoya guda biyu da suke soyayya cikin jindaɗi. Babban maƙasudin wannan post shine na koyar da yadda ake hirar soyayya masu dadi tareda nuna muhimmancin hakan domin gina dangantaka mai ɗorewa. Labarin Masoya Biyu: Fatima da Sulaiman Fatima da Sulaiman masoya ne da suka fara soyayya cikin tsantsan kaunar juna, domin kowane lokaci masoyan cike suke da kewar juna. Ni tunda nake a zahiri ban taɓa ganin soyayya mai ban sha'awa irin tasu Domin sune tushen rubutun hirar soyayya m...

Sakon Soyayya Na Barka Da Safiya Domin Masoya: Soyayya tana daya daga cikin kyawawan al’amura, wanda suke faranta zuciyar kowane ɗan-adam, musamman idan ya kasance ana bayyanata cikin shauki da nuna tsantsan kauna. Haba malam ai ba abinda yafi daɗi irin kamar kana farkawa daga bacci kaji saukar Sakon Barka Da Safiya na soyayya mai cike da girmamawa da nuna ƙauna daga masoyiyarka.  Nasan ko ban faɗa ba yanzu haka kayi murmushi, domin na rantse idan ka samu yarinya wacce tasan sirrin yadda ake tsara sakon barka da safiya na soyayya to kawai ka gama dacewa. Domin duk wani guntun ɓacin ranka wanda ka tashi dashi daga bacci sai dai kawai ka nemeshi ka rasa. Dalilin kuwa shine samun budurwa mai sonka da kayi, domin wacce ke sonka kaɗai ce zata iya zama har ta turo maka sakon barka da safiya. Ko tantanma babu sau da yawa, daga cikin gajerun sakon da yan'mata kan turowa samarinsu a kowace rana babu wanda yafi burge samari irin sakon barka da safiya. Yar'uwata idan bakya yi to daga gobe...

Alamomin So na Gaskiya: So na gaskiya yana ɗaya daga cikin abubuwan da kowane masoyi yake burin ya samu daga masoyinsa, domin hakan na karawa alaƙar soyayya armashi da ma’ana. A yawancin lokuta, yana da matukar wahala ka gane alamomin so na gaskiya, musamman idan wanda kake tareda shi yana nuna maka so koda kaɗan ne kuwa. Domin kai tsaye ba zaka gane cewa sonka yake tsakani da Allah ko kuma yana da wata manufa kawai a kanka.  Wannan dalilin ne yasa na zauna na zurfafa bincike domin kawo muku manya manyan alamomin so na gaskiya, a cikin wannan rubutun. Amma ayi sani cewa "Idan masoyinki ko masoyiyarka basa nuna wasu daga cikin alamomin amma kuma suna yin wasu tofa gaskiya ni malamin soyayya ba zan iya ganewa ba, illa iyaka abinda na kawo na alamomin so gaskiya suyi muku jagoranci domin fahimtar waɗanda kuke soyayya dasu. Wannan sune alamun soyayya ta gaskiya kamar haka: Nuna Kulawa Duk wanda yake sonki ko take sonka da gaske  zai dinga nuna kulawarsa gameda rayuwarki. Wato koma...

Hotunan Lalle Masu Kyau  Lalle wata kyakkyawar al'adar Hausawa ce wacce ke ƙarawa mata kyawun hannu da ƙafa cike da armashi. Nayi burin a yau zan kawo hotunan lalle masu kyau na kasashe daban-daban domin karuwar matan Hausa.  Yan'mata kiyi sani cewa amfani da lalle ba wai kawai iya ado bane, a'a wata kyakkyawar hanya ce ta bayyana fasaha da adon hausawa. Shin yan'mata kin san cewa kuwa Samari suna bala'in son lalle! habawa! musamman idan kika samu wacce ta iya ta laylaya miki shi a hannunki wallahi zaki sha mamaki idan saurayinki ya gani domin sai ya baki tukuici. A wannan rubutu nawa, ni manazarciyar Aminiya blog zan tattauna kan muhimmancin yin lalle da kuma kawo miki hotunan lalle masu kyau yar'uwata waɗanda zasu janyo miki ƙarin soyayya daga masoyinki abun alfaharinki. Sannan ina so ki kasance wacce bata da lalaci wajen tabbatar da abinda kika koya a wannan post nawa. Shin yar'uwata kin san meyasa lalle yake da muhimmanci kuwa? Yau kam bari na baki labar...

Azabar Daren Farko: Da Dalilin Dake Kawo Haka. Daren farko na aure ya kasance wani dare ne mai matukar muhimmanci ga amarya da ango, duk da cewa cike yake da fargaba, jin kunyar juna, dama kuma jindaɗi ga sababbin ma'aurata. Daren ranar farko na cike da farinciki da annashuwa na shiga sabon babin rayuwa. Sai dai kash! wasu amaren suna tsoron azabar daren farko , baku da laifi kunsan ance dama Allah ɗaya gari banbam domin kuwa wasu ma'auratan kan sha dadi a wannan lokaci wasu kuwa kan fuskanci ƙalubale da wahala a wannan lokaci.  Kafin dai in wuce ina yi muku lale maraba da shigowa wannan shafin ilimi nawa kuma zanyi bayani dalla-dalla dangane da azabar daren farko, dalilan dake kawo azabar daren farko, yadda amarya zata shawo kan matsalar, da kuma hanyoyin da ya kamata amarya da ango subi domin tabbatar da cewa daren farkonsu ya kasance mai cike da daɗi da kuma kwanciyar hankali. Menene dalilin da yasa Daren Farko yakan zama mai wahala ne? Abubuwa da dama sukan iya kawo azabar ...